👻Phantom Pressure on Our Leaders: Why Growth Without Culture Haunts the Hero and The Witnesses Too

How to Haunt a Hero

You can hit every KPI, scale every quarter, and still feel the quiet echo, the hum, the silent undercurrent of an organization’s success: mission burnout. The good news is this , ‘phantom pressure’ is a common occurrence. Any leader who senses a team under strain can take a big sigh of relief in realizing sometimes burnout is beyond their immediate planning, intention, or control. What leaders should caution themselves against is simply putting it off as their problem (the employee)  only. More so, leadership would be extra wise to tune in if no problems come across their plate. 

Imagine you are the story of Ajax. By history’s telling Ajax was every bit as worthy and heroic as Achilles, yet when it was time for a promotion the crown passed to Odysseus. Upon first-take one perceives that Ajax was a victim of his own haughtiness, self-determination, and rejection of “playing politics”.   Sophocles’ tragedy Ajax (5th century BCE). Ajax believes he should inherit Achilles’ armor (as the second-greatest warrior).

Instead, the armor goes to Odysseus, the OG-Linkedin Thought Leader:

After Achilles died, his armor (divine, forged by gods) became the prize.
Ajax, strongest warrior after Achilles, assumed it was his by right.
Instead, King Agamemnon gave the armor to Odysseus.
Why? Not because Odysseus fought better, but because he spoke better — his speech convinced the Greeks.
Ajax felt robbed, dishonored, cheated — his worth overlooked for someone else’s rhetoric.
This humiliation enraged him and cracked his pride, leading toward the spiral of madness.

The humiliation of broken pride and promises haunts Ajax. 

How I have spent my rage on beasts that feared no harm! … To what shame am I brought low.”

He was proven to be an Achilles-level leader who delivered results every time, praised and honored the gods, and was ultimately a beast on the battlefield known to all around. Before he became blinded by the will of his worth, he was certain of his victory. As a millennial who comes from a generation that thrives through trauma, commutes, pandemics, and headlines while death and taxes still ring their tolls the loudest. I could feel his plight. 

Meanwhile Odysseus shows up, a smooth talker and system-player, the one who wins with optics. Was the tragedy the loss of the crown? Was it the madness of pursuing justice in a culture-less system that rewards visibility over inherent truths? Honors spectacle over spectacular?

Nope! It was the divine design behind the scenes. If one sits with the story long enough, you see the mechanism of a goddess, Athena, unfold. 

After Achilles’ death, Ajax and Odysseus each claim the armor. The Greek leaders can’t agree, so they stage a contest.Different sources vary, but the outcome is that Odysseus wins because Athena (goddess His eloquence, was her gift, and cunning strategy, her confidence bestowed upon him, which impressed the judges. Athena herself had long favored him for the win before the game even began (she’s his divine patron). Ajax, though stronger, lacked the rhetorical and political skills Athena prized and Athena gave Odysseus the prizes she possessed to use in the game. Ajax essentially lost a rigged interview and a copy-paste-pitch.

This is a key dynamic to note within any systems-design. When optics reign as a rule, the system as a machine will reward spin over substance. When god decides optics wi the system feels rigged by default. So Ajax isn’t just bitter about a popularity contest — he’s crushed because an authority he couldn’t sway (Athena) betrayed and sanctioned his dishonor.

The tragedy clearly shows he is Ajax, The Burned-Out Champion. He gave everything, expected honor, but was betrayed. 

Panopticon of Politics

Now imagine running  those values through a mechanistic authority system.

Culture-less growth is expansion without repair, speed without stewardship. It’s the psychic prison Gareth Morgan warned about — where organizations become trapped in outdated myths and metrics.

Symptoms include rising turnover, disengaged talent, and wellness programs that feel like band-aids on broken bones. Baylor’s historical review of workplace wellness shows how these programs evolved from safety nets to slogans — often missing the deeper need for belonging.

It looks like growth on paper but feels like erosion to any system’s success. As Gareth Morgan’s 8 organizational metaphor’s define the lens of the mechanistic authority system:

“Culture-less growth is the psychic prison of modern organizations — expansion without essence.”

“It looks like progress on paper, but it starts to manifest:

  • Excellence → Efficiency. Instead of celebrating excellence of spirit, machine-culture reduces worth to output, speed, optimization.
  • Divine Lineage → Elitism. Instead of mythic heritage, it crowns privilege and hierarchy as “divine right” (who has access, not who has honor).
  • Glory Before Longevity → Burnout Before Belonging. The heroic choice becomes warped into grinding workers down for insatiable wins.
  • Rage + Love → Competition Without Care. Aggression is rewarded, but love and loyalty are stripped out as “unproductive.”
  • Apotheosis → Metrics. Immortality is flattened into numbers: awards, valuations, rankings. No spirit, just clout.

Essentially it would leave even the fiercest and most strategic leader singing: 

I wear this crown of thorns

Upon my liar’s chair

Full of broken thoughts

I cannot repair

 (-Johnny Cash or NiN – your choice)

When employers, employees, and leads slog through systems that haven’t resolved its own ghosts, the middle carries the burnout weight. The greatest tragedy is that those who witness it unfold choose silence as survival, while the heroes stand in a trial of fire and insanity. Ajax woke to a pile of cattle; today’s leaders wake to a pile of pings.

Ajax on his throne.

What’s critical to note is  Odysseus would’ve won on Law and Order too under these pretenses. Let’s recall the case from the story of  Martin’s Close: The courtroom in M. R. James’ tale, where a ghost appeared not for spectacle but to demand justice.

A man on trial for murder smirks, sure of his clever defense. *cough* Odysseus *cough*
But in the hush of the courtroom, the ghost of his victim appears.
She does not speak. She does not need to.
Her presence alone demands justice.
The haunting is not the terror of a shadow.
It is the silence that forces the jury to face what was buried.

In Martin’s Close, justice only came when the ghost appeared in plain sight. The courtroom is shaken (only) when the murdered woman’s ghost appears during her killer’s trial. The haunting wasn’t random; it was the reckoning for injustice that had been buried. Yet, Martin silenced Athena with by sharpening the sword of optics against the machine.

Where’s Justice At?

zinga hart

Meanwhile The Judge & Jury,  are present as the, formal witnesses, hearing testimony and weighing evidence. The ghost’s presence forces the jury to confront what was buried. The Spectators in Court
Act as communal witness — the haunting becomes public knowledge, not just a private torment. The trial becomes a  ritual of silencing accountability.  The courtroom hushes at the ghostly interruption and we (the reader) slip into a silent judge and jury too. 

The “witness” in Martin’s Close = anyone who sees the haunting and claims it out loud and true. Instead, the reader, in both Ajax and the Close receive, 

  • A working-warrior wakes in shame among the slaughtered cattle.
  • A haunted trial stalls as a ghost stares at the jury.
  • A middle manager scrolls LinkedIn at midnight, exhausted, unseen, yet demanded for more.

All three are the same.

So was Ajax’s haunting madness? 

Or could the optics no longer hold the truth of Athena’s love of a slow-burn? 

Ajax stayed the hero, then he saw the truth: that the system had robbed him of honor, blinded him, and left him wrecked among wasted battles. In our organizations, burnout is that moment. The haunting arrives when the strongest contributors wake to find their labor spent on illusions, their honor denied, and their culture absent. That is the true cost of culture-less growth.

In our organizations, burnout plays the same role. The haunting will not stop until leaders restore what was silenced: culture, belonging, joy. Because growth without culture is always a ghost story.

When culture is absent, burnout fills the vacuum. That’s the ghost in the system.

The tangible costs are clear: productivity loss, hidden rehiring expenses, brand erosion vs the intangible costs — morale, creativity, trust — harder to measure and even harder to restore.

Some systems were designed with rigid parts in mind: checks & balances, assembly-line labor, bureaucracies. The machine feels steady, but “runs,” but like an old factory engine — creaking, inefficient, built on outdated logic. Yet, when trapped into a logic of heroics and optics, the hidden haunt begins to build its case. The result is: 

  • Tangible cost: Workers stand before systems that crown optics over honor, leaving culture absent and burnout rising. 
  • Intangible cost: “Creativity erodes when systems encase control outdated logic and win-at-all-costs culture. Just as Martin’s ghost forced a reckoning, burnout forces leaders to confront the invisible debts of culture-less growth.

Yet, Culture isn’t perks or slogans. It’s values our embodied, rituals honored, people aligned.

Think of the parable of the three bricklayers: one sees his task as laying bricks, another as building a wall, and the third as constructing a cathedral. Same job, different culture.

Culture is the infrastructure that turns growth into sustainability. It’s the difference between a machine and an organism — between extraction and evolution.

Millennials run on haunted coffee. We don’t need more slogans; we need a séance of our systems. 

👻 In every age, the haunting is the same: Ajax with cattle, Martin with silence, us with burnout. Growth without culture is always a ghost story — one that turns heroes into specters and witnesses into weary jurors. And yet, ghosts only appear because something sacred was silenced. Which means the cure is never metrics, but relief from the memory that binds us.

Waking Up #Goddess

I blink open, and the cosmos gasps,
every spirit since Genesis crowding my bedside
like curious cousins at a sleepover.

“Girl… what happened?” they whisper.
“You walked through centuries like stilettos on cobblestone
and didn’t trip once.”

I sip their spirits
Stretch for more
Yahweh winks,
Ma’at side-eyes,
and King Cepheus and Queen Cassiopeia doodle heart emojis across our history.

“How you do it?” they press.
“How you still do it?” #mustbealien

I giggle —
the sound of an ancestor finally finding Wi-Fi.
I shrug —
the shrug that makes empires tremble.
I yawn —
and three galaxies blush.

Because being goddess
means being the blessing the most high wished me to be.
Oh happy day. To finally play.
Waking up unbothered,
snatching joy out the ether,
and calling it Monday.

And the spirits?
They write in their diaries:
“Day 919. She rose again. #cuteaf”

📜 Sidebar: Why Ethiopia is Written in the Stars
In ancient Greek mythology, Cassiopeia was Queen of Ethiopia and Cepheus her king. Let’s return myth back to roots: Ethiopia as cradle, cosmos, and crown. Their daughter Andromeda was chained to a rock and forced to wait for a “Greek Prince” to rescue her. ✨ She became “constellations” for astrologist to follow.

The cradle of divinity was always meant to be free.

One More Move: Stabalize What’s Sacred For You

America, as a public society, has shifted from outdoor spaces to social media networks regenerating half truths that resonate with our lived  experiences against the headlines we encounter. Being a millennial , my natural reflection is to clock the pagentry of chaos, gossip, and bullshit masquerading as some supreme inescapable system.

Being an MBA student , I’ve now have dwelled in the structures that upheld the bullshit and made capitalism seem so safe and sound….so neutral from the absurdities of mystical or religious dogma.

So where does that leave us? For me, it means stabilizing what’s sacred—not in the noise of headlines, but in the rhythms I choose to honor each day. My MBA lens has shown me how institutions polish chaos into credibility, but my lived wisdom reminds me that truth lives in the micro-practices: how we breathe, how we gather, how we build.

This season, I’m centering systems that feel like sanctuary—rituals that soften the frenzy and stabilize what matters most. That’s the heartbeat of this blog and the core of the Soft Systems Club: to design structures that honor joy, not just efficiency.

If you’ve felt the weight of constant chaos or the tug of a system that calls itself neutral while draining your spirit, then this space is for you. I share templates, reflections, and gatherings that aren’t about escaping reality—they’re about remembering that your sacred is already the system.

✨ This month’s offering: Strategy archetype quiz…find out what brings your strategy relief.