Happy Sunday
It’s been great!
Thanks for your wonderful 2015!
While I’ve written other blogs in the past , this is the first one where I have finally captured my purpose for your web viewing. Helping others take the steps the need to find success in their lives is my mission!
What will 2016 bring?
- More posts and steps to take towards your success
- Guest bloggers? I hope!! If you’re interested in collaborating let me know 😀
- Videos!!! Yes, in 2016, I will face my insecurity (about being dorky on camera) and share videos for those who prefer to learn visually
I am truly grateful towards anyone who has shared the words on this page with me. I look forward to our growth in the next year!
Taking a vacation – Next official blog post will be January 4th 2016 – unless I’m somehow inspired before then.
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Daydream to Boost Your Most Passionate Career Path
96% of adults daydream. If you are one of those adults, ask yourself: are you using this seemingly random activity to the fullest potential?
Like most successful activities, daydreaming to your favor will take practice, purpose, and persistence and, in this case, we’re going to focus on your career. How can you use daydreams to ensure you are reaching your career path’s most passionate potential? There are simple techniques to do so, but first a short overview of current thoughts around daydreams.
What are daydreams?
Daydreams were discovered when scientists notice neural network activity while participants were not participating in anything at all. This came to the formation of the phrase “stimulus-independent thought,” which are thoughts created sans interaction or engagement with the environment outside of our minds. In this sense, daydreams may seem as if they are out of your control, and they can easily be, but the truth is our mind is a muscle and we work with it as we would most functioning muscles in our body.
So how can we use daydreams to create our best career path?
We must actively practice day dream by engaging in personal discovery sessions. This type of daydreaming is called positive-constructive daydreaming, which is the active reflection on our feelings, thoughts, imaginations, and other personal facets of our life in an open manner. This activity means letting go of any urge to stop yourself from thinking a thought or dreaming a dream. Studies found this type of thinking led to an overall sense of well-being and furthermore it opens you up the possibilities of where you can apply your value.[source]
How can you use this on your career path?
The answer is there are many ways to do it and you mustn’t stop at one! Experiment and continuously reflect on your career path throughout the time that you desire to earn a living for yourself. Two simple ways to incorporate this technique into your life is by:
Take a career quiz
Taking personality quizzes, like this one, or this one, and imagining yourself in the ideal roles that they describe for you. When it comes to career construction, my old mentor, Dr. Mark Savickas, told me they’re only about half right. Yet, this is a safe and simple activity to envision a future you.
Put yourself into the position and research it. Note what excites you and what doesn’t as you explore what the role has to offer.
The closest personality test for your work preference is the Holland Code, a model developed by John Holland and used by the military. My Holland Code was IEAS, most Holland Codes are the first 3 letters, which meant my career preference would be book restorer. NO!!! Don’t let online or even legitimate quizzes decide your career path, in order to find your authentic value you must dream deeper into who you are.
Career Path Dream Land
Asking yourself probing questions and then answering them until you reach a point of profound clarity is a thing. This is what is needed to really unearth the answers of who you are and where you are meant to bring value to the world.
A safe way to do this is what I call a mini-self-retreat. Find a way to get time alone and comfortable: send the roommate or partner out, find a baby or pet sitter, or go to a hotel.
Relinquish yourself from responsibility save for your Self.
Then have a nice thoughtful internal discussion about what you want. Stay with the discussion and record your answers for later use, listen to yourself with openness and innocence, as if within you there is a great warm source of your very own personal all-knowing. It can seem different at first, but this is just a surface level way to find your authentic value from within.
Will daydreaming get you a job? No. Constructive daydreaming and self-discovery will set you on a path to a career you are confident carrying as a part of your life’s legacy. If that’s something you think is worth having, let me know!
Comment and we’ll connect 🙂
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10 Gifts Your #BossBae Will Appreciate
This one is for all the partners of entrepreneurs out there. We love you. Thanks for sticking with us through this roller coaster of a journey towards success. For supporting us through all the achievements and for the meetings that land us nowhere. Our vision is clear, but the path before us is mired with uncertain risks. You, dear partner, are a shining light in our journey. So, here are some top gifts, your entrepreneurial partner would appreciate. If you’re a woman who is entrepreneur help your partner out and comment below! Who knows you might just get what you want.
- A bit of inspiration – A custom framed word of that motivates them to continue pursuing their passions will revive them every time the glance at it.
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3. To balance the hectic schedule and take a much needed break 
4. For all the new ideas, leads, and lists 
5. For the entrepreneur who is full of dreams, but not quite sure which to make a reality. 
6. For all the meetings they will attend and keep on schedule…Staying on time while staying stylish, will make their leadership look effortless.
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8. To keep them styling while filing. A durable and sturdy case to keep their papers, projects, and other pieces organized.
9. Because knowledge is power. Wonderfully inspiring book on keeping your entrepreneurial edge.
10. Because at the end of the day the people make all of this worth it
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7 Surprising Questions to Measure Your Leadership
Great coverage to share with newer non-profit board members. When forming a new team of leadership, keep an eye on long-term goals.
Read more from Leadership Freak
Source: 7 Surprising Questions to Measure Your Leadership
7 Quotes to Inspire Your Career Action Plan
Building an authentic career path takes effort. Maintaining your job, keeping yourself open to new opportunities, while improving your skills to keep up with the pace of change in the working world is just a few additional domains to juggle in the scope of your life. Endless online applications and a degree of uncertainty during interviews, can make the experience daunting for even the most seasoned of career champs. Now, the path of talent connection is moving to the social world, which is an additional activity to include on your list of many.
On your career journey it is important to stay motivated.
Here are some 7 motivational quotes to keep your career aspirations in perspective as you continue to build the dream.
There are positive and negative thoughts and, hey, it doesn’t cost you a cent more to think positively
– Angelo Dundee, boxing trainer
Even the best career candidates will not be chosen for every position. The factors that go into choosing you are plenty: the needs, culture, and desires of the company, hiring manager, and team will all play a role into the final decision. So while you may find positions slipping out of reach, there is no need to be negative because that will only slow down your search. Stay positive because it keeps you active.
You can’t build a reputation on what you’re going to do.
— Confucius
If you want to be X (a marketer, account manager, etc.) you are not going to get there by talking about what you will be doing, you need to find ways to do it! Learn the tech associated with the position, volunteer where you can, write about it! Find ways to do what you want to do, whether it is a part of your position or not.
No man can succeed in a line of endeavor which he does not like.
-Napoleon Hill
Recognize what you don’t like to do early. This will help cut out positions you don’t really want so you can spend time on what you do want.
The worst days of those who enjoy what they do, are better than the best days of those who don’t.
—E. James Rohn
When you find something you love, you will know because even the pain points will be worth it.
There is no passion to be found in playing small—in settling for a life that is less than you are capable of living.
–Nelson Mandela
I run into people who shy away from speaking outlandish visions of what they want from their future. They fear the disappointment that comes from not attaining it. Yet, the disappointment truly lies in the moment resigned from choosing a life they want. Imagine the best future you can then work towards it today, it is much more fulfilling than giving up all hope before trying.
Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.
-Gloria Steinem
Another reason people shy away from imaginations of the future is because they think imagining and daydreaming are a waste of time. This is a dangerous rumor. Dreaming, imagining, and thinking are exercises that ensure our career dreams grow into a career process with an outcome we desire. Make it the first step and give yourself permission to dream your best life.
No one rises suddenly in the world, not even the sun.
Know that your career progress will unfold with time. Just continue to cultivate the process, plan for greatness, and hold patient as your destiny blooms before you.
What’s your favorite career quote?
5 Small Steps to Create and Use A Personal Strategic Plan
Anyone who knows me, knows I love planning. While, I do a lot of business and marketing planning for others, my true passion for planning stemmed from personal development planning. It all sparked from a meeting with Sheila Palmer, Assistant to Donna Karen of DKNY, she shared with me a book called the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens after a brief conversation on the beach of Coney Island. When I read that book, the life of discipline, value, and achievement opened up to me for the first time.
From that year (2004) and on, I began a tradition of sitting down every year and creating a personal strategy for the next. This personal strategy helped me get three degrees, start 2 businesses, and accomplish many other complicated goals over my lifetime. Now as I grow into an adult millennial, this tool is helping me manage the many balls in my life with my chill and confident attitude towards getting things done.
First a few notes
- A personal strategy is your strategy. Only you can define the desires that swell within you.
- Your strategy will get better with each pass. You have to stick with it.
- Your strategy can, will, and should change. Although, your values, goals, and beliefs will be closer to a constant, how you reach these ends will need to be adjusted as the year unfolds.
- Your higher-order mission, vision, and values should remain constant, but be refined over time.
No strategy should be set in stone; it should only serve you for as long as it helps you reach your goals.
So, here are 5 small ways to create and use a personal strategy for 2016 today
- Start with your wildest vision for your life then scale it back to achieve for the year. Be a firm believer that whatever goal you set can be accomplished, then do yourself a favor and give yourself a generous timeline to get there. No city is built in a day, but it is built eventually.
- Write 3-5 goals to achieve over the year. Try to build off the work you’ve done last year. If you are starting from scratch, make one goal something you can achieve right away to boost your efficacy in achieving annual goals.
- Schedule a time to review your goals for at least 5 minutes a day. I know an hour once a week may seem like more, but the odds of missing one week, then the next, then the next, are too high of a risk for your best you in 2016. Instead, find some way to incorporate your visions and goals in a high-frequency place throughout your day. Build it into your passwords, set up a vision board, or make it a part of your alarm clock. There are tons of ways to make your goals presence known.
- Pick one goal per day. Yes, you are a leader and have so much more to offer the world, but if you are having trouble genuinely sticking with the goals most important to you then you have to stick with tactics that work. Focusing on one goal per day will not overwhelm your schedule.
- Share what you are doing with an accountability partner. Find someone in your life that you admire for achieving their goals. Meet with them and share your goals and work towards meeting with them regularly. Do a SWOT assessment, share tips and tricks, and other successes with them. Sharing your goals makes you more accountable to yourself and others, which will build your persistence.
Simple steps, but a great start to mapping out your best 2016. Let’s get rid of resolutions and map out the business plan for your careers!
What’s wildest dream are you working on?
Relish Every Achievement in 5 Easy Moves
One of my clients is a visionary. Her passion for setting bold goals and creating constant possibilities to current situations is thrilling.When we meet, I find sometimes she feels discouraged by all her organization has not achieved, and quickly overlooking all the small victories she did accomplish. She isn’t the first person I’ve known to do this, and at times, I’ve been guilty of getting discouraged about where I am not instead of remembering and celebrating how far I’ve made it.
So for our next move forward, we’re going to take a look back on how far we’ve made it.
Here are five ways you can relish your achievements today.
- Think of 3 ways you have grown in the past five years. Remember yourself from five years ago. You probably made mistakes, struggled to achieve something, or achieved something that made you proud. Consider this growth. If five years is not enough then think over the ten past ten years. You graduated, got that job, started a blog or business. Take a historical scan of your past and thank yourself for taking those successful steps.
- Check off parts of your vision board that you have lived. I had on my vision board to be bold and hang with the best. This year I’ve met more CEOs, executive directors, and other business leaders than ever. What is on your vision board that you find is a quality you are currently exhibiting? The point of a vision board is to help us define our desired reality. When you begin to live those desires you have acted in successful alignment with your vision, so take the time to celebrate. Don’t have a vision board? Make one.
- Go through your social media and celebrate your successes. Visit your Facebook page, LinkedIn account, or other social media channel and look for a time where you posted something you were happy about or found to be a particular achievement. Tell yourself good job again and remember that you have been successful in the past and are on the right track. Can’t find anything? Then think of a moment where you shared good advice that someone liked. There, you made an impact, which is a successful action.
- Remember something small you did successfully and do it again. If you are having a hard time remembering an significant successes then think every smaller and consider the daily achievements we make. Did you remember to take the garbage out on time? Or call your mother after you set the goal 3-weeks ago? These little acts are acts of success and worthy content to from when your memory banks feel fuzzy.
- Share your goal/purpose/mission. Celebrate. Taking ownership of our success means being able to be held accountable. When you share what you want to do with another you have taken a victorious step towards being more accountable, while improving your path to your long-term achievement. It’s a win-win move that you can use anytime.
Celebrating our successes over time is just as important as learning and growing from our failures. Both success and failure keep us humble and motivated on our personal or entrepreneurial success path.
How do you find time to celebrate your success? Comment below or Connect with me on Twitter, Facebook, or LinkedIn
One More Move: Use your favorite command everyday
Happy Monday! It’s been a wonderful week, almost like a sense of renewed outlook on living, yet the same one of seeking authentic leadership in an ultra-produced world. What is different today from most? I realized my most subtle, yet productive, method for active habit building. I changed my password. What better way is there to affirm and command ourselves on a daily basis then to set our passwords to exactly what we most need from ourselves?
When I homeschooled myself in high school, I could have easily sunk into the endless world of the early semi-anonymous Internet and Sims, but I didn’t because then my password was some form of I need a to-do list for everyday. With that in mind, my mind went to work. I to-do listed my way through finishing my self-taught HS diploma in three years, my college degree in four (even after dropping out a semester), and my master’s degree in two (while working full-time and diving into a bunch of entrepreneurial ventures). Now while this is a list of accomplishments, it’s not the point. What kept me steady through these lively years was my to-do list and repeatedly reminding myself I needed one. So for your one more move towards a path to success with a little less stress, find time to do this: Set your password to the command you most need.
For example: Let’s say you need to call your mother more often.
First make it an affirmation by placing yourself right next to the action.
I [yourself] will call [the action] my mother on Sunday. Another example is, I call my mother every Sunday.
Then take the first letter or first few letters of the command into letters and change some obvious letters into numbers. In this case our first example will change from:
I will call my mother on Sunday to
1Wcmm0nSunday – I like to spell out the last word for added length. This not only creates a strong password that is unique to you, it also affirms and reminds you of what is truly important. Some motivating commands I’ve used in the past have been:
I need a to-do list for everyday –> 1natdl4evryday
I will do it.
I write for 15 minutes everyday.
etc. My current one, I won’t share, but let’s just say it was a needed change in my life and I am pleased.
Do you have any useful motivational hacks? Share with me on Twitter @ZingaHart or comment below.
Learned a new word: Malfeasance
MALFEASANCE
: wrongdoing or misconduct especially by a public official
It’s surprising this word is so sparsely used in our public rhetoric.
Zinga Hart 
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